My Girl got a Girlfriend...but ONLY if I can play too!

Ignorant A$$ Boy's (herein referred to as IAB) FB Status:  "I hate to say it but the reason y it's flooding is because of all "GAYS" in Atlanta" 



Now I consider myself to be relatively open-minded and usually I'm not easily stirred, but this comment pissed me off.  It was posted by a now ex-facebook friend.  About a month ago, I posted the status "Why are people so afraid of HAPPY people?"  I am known for puns and hidden meanings etc, but I really only meant to convey the sentiment of people who are truely and genuinely happy in contrast to those who are NOT.  IAB's response went into a long rant about how sometimes people are TOO happy and maybe he doesn't want to be happy.  (Rolling my eyes) There's a thought.  Who would want to be happy? Hmmm…He said he only had a problem when people try to push their "Happiness" on him.  You already supposedly love women, how can I possibly push my views on you?  

So, I began to reflect...Gucci Mane, T-pain, Lil Wayne and probably some others that I am missing have songs or lyrics that mention to "my girl got a girlfriend."  It's like some thrill of the conquest game men play they feel like they did something when they can get two girls at the same time and have them be ok with each other.  When men, or rather boys, discover that I lead an alternative lifestyle, their goal immediately changes to trying to figure out which of my friends I'm going to bring over, or why don't I holler at this chic, so on and so on. 
Or my favorite "I just want to watch."  
No, you don't!  
"We all grown folks, right"
Is this supposed to be game?  Like for real?  With everyone hollering keep it 100, it’s amazing to me the foolishness and antics that guys will go through trying to get two chics and themselves in the same bed together.  So, let's say they're successful...Mission accomplished, right?

But what happens when the two girls decide that he is no longer necessary, needed, wanted, or desired.  They become freaks and whores and abominations and they can only look forward to a future that ends in going straight to hell with gasoline draws on.  What is that about?  What happened to being grown folks being so open-minded?  

Here are a few replies to the question I posed:  “Doing some research, FB, help me out... Why is it sexy for girls to like girls until they stop liking dudes?”

“Cause boys are taught at an early age, in regard to toys... the only thing better than one toy car, is two toy cars... and we want to play with both, preferably at the same time... When the cars don’t want to play with us, most of us lose interest.”- ASJ

“Just speculation but maybe it's because it kills dudes threesome fantasy.” -RVJ

“The female body is most beautiful thing God gave us on this Earth. It all a fantasy, that involves a little control, when the control is gone from the equation, then she is a sinner. She has to make a choice, to love a man or love a woman.”-WL

“Well I think it is sexy for you to make the decision to make yourself happy and live for you.... whether a man is involved or not I’m gay and I think it’s real sexy hon.” –SNW

“It all comes down to men being SELFISH!!! That's the common denominator. When they get left out of the fun then they act up and act out. We become everything except a child of God. SMH...its sad but true.” –SS

And we can’t forget the typical male response:

“I don’t mind it at all... I love to sit back and watch enjoy the show.” -MMH

I think this issue goes beyond the whole aura of lesbian vs. bisexual women and really points to some of the difficulty that “straight” women go through trying to be with a “straight” man.  Oftentimes it’s these same simpleminded views that lead women to be with other women.  That’s why we get girlfriends!  There’s a part of us, usually emotional and sometimes physically, that just isn’t satisfied by being with a man. 

My friend went on to say “…I just don’t get people I mean even if we do love us some females we are still human and we are still gods children!!!!!! That’s why it’s so many people that don’t feel comfy with the way they are and it shouldn’t even be like that.”
I totally agree.  But as a wise man once told me, MY well being is worth more to me than YOUR sanity.  That’s my soapbox for the evening…Smooches!

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